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Books about Challenging Behavior for Ages 3–5 and Caregivers
Books to share with your children that will not only engage them but will also help them develop healthy ways to express their emotions and resolve conflicts. Guides for caregivers offer strategies for discipline guided by compassion and positive reinforcement.
Note: Originally developed for D69 TOPS Preschool Parent Group.
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Red, Yellow, Blue
2019 by Mullady, LysaGet this itemRed is focused on himself and is grouchy to Yellow, but soon sees the importance of respect.
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Pig the Stinker
2019 by Blabey, AaronGet this itemIt’s bath time, but Pig decides to run and hide instead of getting in the tub.
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The Day Leo Said I Hate You!
2008 by Harris, Robie H.Get this itemLeo is upset after hearing “no” from his mom all day and lets his anger get the better of him.
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Naptastrophe!
2017 by Krosoczka, JarrettGet this itemLucy insists she doesn’t need a nap but realizes she is more tired than she thought when running errands with her dad.
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Little Dinos Don't Yell
2013 by Dahl, MichaelGet this itemIn this series, little dinos learn to avoid disrespectful behavior and what to try instead when feeling upset. Other titles in the series include Little Dinos Don't Hit, Little Dinos Don't Push, and Little Dinos Don't Bite.
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Be Polite and Kind
2004 by Meiners, Cheri J.Get this itemThis series focuses on basic steps for resolving problems and conflicts with classmates, friends, and siblings. Each book contains extension activities to try at home. Other series titles include Know and Follow Rules, Respect and Take Care of Things and Talk and Work It Out.
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Teeth Are Not for Biting
2003 by Verdick, ElizabethGet this itemIn this series, children are encouraged to express themselves in positive ways. Each book contains developmental tips for parents and caregivers. Other series titles include Feet Are Not for Kicking, Voices Are Not for Yelling, and Words Are Not for Hurting.
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No More Tantrums
2017 by Van Lieshout, MariaGet this itemBig kids know that part of growing up is learning your own limits and treating others with respect
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The Snurtch
2016 by Ferrell, SeanGet this itemThe Snurtch gets Ruthie into trouble at school. When she learns to control it and say “sorry,” her friends enjoy spending time with her again.
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You Hold Me Up
2017 by Gray Smith, MoniqueGet this itemThere are many ways to show support and respect, like singing together and comforting each other.
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Nope. Never. Not for Me!
2019 by Cotterill, SamanthaGet this itemWhen a young girl doesn’t want broccoli, her mom helps her see that it’s good to try at least one bite.
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Fergal and the Bad Temper
2019 by Starling, RobertGet this itemFergal often loses his temper and snorts angry fire. He feels sorry and gets advice from his animal friends on how to calm down.
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Raising Good Humans: A Mindful Guide to Breaking the Cycle of Reactive Parenting and Raising Kind, Confident Kids
2019 by Clarke-Fields, HunterGet this itemParents strive for patience during tough moments. Clarke-Fields demonstrates how to keep cool to create a peaceful home.
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Permission to Parent: How to Raise Your Child with Love and Limits
2014 by Berman, Robin E.Get this itemBerman encourages parents to set boundaries, teach responsibility, and praise kindness to forge meaningful connections with their children.
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No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind
2016 by Siegel, Daniel J.Get this itemWith a focus on child development, Siegel provides a road map for dealing with tantrums and discipline with compassion.
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Positive Discipline for Preschoolers
2019 by Nelsen, JaneGet this itemNelsen supports parents through suggestions for nonpunitive discipline and reinforcing positive behavior.
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